Montessori in the Home

Here are a few tips that can be integrated into your daily schedule. Always offer freedom of movement, this is how we learn. Show your child how to un/dress, offer two clothing choices, prepare meals together, model and encourage how to eat with utensils, drink from a small glass, sleep in a floor bed, and offer words for their feelings/behavior.  Protect their concentration, don’t interrupt them, and allow them to complete their project. A little struggle is good, it allows for critical thinking and problem solving. Only intervene unless you observe the three ‘Ds” (Destructive, Disrespectful or Dangerous). Create a designated spot for their toys, don’t over stimulate them with too much.  Periodically rotate their toys.  Collaborate putting things away, help each other, and eventually your child will clean up independently (as best they can for their age).  Routine, consistency, and modeling appropriate behavior and words enables young children to feel successful in social situations and a sense of orientation in different environments. Toilet learning is also very important. In the beginning, it’s not about a child producing but becoming used to this new way of life. Toileting is done in the bathroom and is no longer passive- your child helps because it is their work (not yours). Diapers are changed standing and your child sits on the potty while you grab a clean diaper or underwear. For more information on toilet learning, please find toilet learning blog.

Three Areas to Consider:

  • Sleeping– floor bed, quiet, low light, peaceful
  • Personal Care– In the beginning a changing table with everything you need is in arms reach. When your child is walking steady, personal care moves to the bathroom or an area of the home where the family spends most of their time. Establish a routine and consistency using a small potty, a receptacle for soiled clothes, clean clothes, a stool, sink, and soap. Now there a collection of items available in your child’s reach as well as your reach. Toileting is about establishing a consistent routine that works for your child and family’s schedule. This is not about the child producing, in the beginning it is about your child becoming used to this new way of personal care.
  • Movement– gross motor (climbing, pushing, pulling, lifting, throwing, etc.) and fine motor activities (open/close, puzzles, clay, food prep, etc.) on low shelves, a toddler table and chair.
  • Meals– In the beginning, this is in a parent’s arms. When your child is sitting up (5 months) place your child in a weaning chair and table, here they begin a new a relationship with you by sitting across from you, your child begins to test new foods, and practice their eye-hand coordination with a spoon. When your child is walking steady, some meals might be at their toddler table and chair and other meals might be in a chair that enables your child to sit at the kitchen or dining room table. It’s important not to lock your child down with straps. Teach them how to independently sit, eat, and enjoy each other’s company.

Clay, Playdough, Biscuits

Suggested Activities:

Children’s hands need work. Their hands love to open/close, squeeze, pinch, pull, push, etc. Let’s satisfy this need with purposeful work they enjoy. Clay, playdough, and biscuit work strengthen their hands, aid in the development of their senses, language, and kinesthetic learning. In the beginning, children make spheres and coils, pinch apart into little pieces, and taste (mouthing). Later, it’s about using rolling pins, cookie cutters, creating sculptures, making pots and bowls, and cooking.

Clay:

Sculptor’s clay is best. Use a firm clay that becomes soft when it is warmed up with your hands. This is a great workout for children’s hands and will become easier as their hands become stronger.

Playdough Recipe: Easy to manipulate and very good for children still discovering with their mouth.

  • 1/2 cup salt
  • 1 cup water
  • 1 tablespoon of vegetable oil
  • 1 tablespoons cream of tartar
  • 1 cup of flour
  • Food coloring
    • Mix water and food coloring
    • Mix salt, water/color mixture, oil, and cream of tartar in a pan and heat until warm
    • Remove pan from heat and add flour
    • Knead the dough until smooth. Be careful, it might be hot
    • When play dough is ready, cut down into golf ball sizes and wrap individually with plastic wrap or air tight container or freezer bag. Freeze until ready to use

Biscuit Recipe: The best work for children (walking steady-onward), you see the biggest smile because it is the most rewarding!

  • 1 cup flour
  • 1/2 teaspoon baking powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 3 tablespoons butter
  • 1/4 cup milk or soy
    • Mixing bowl, cutting board, 2 spoons, rolling pin, biscuit cutter, small baking pan (9″x9″)
    • Preheat oven 400 degrees, bake biscuits for 10 -/+ minutes
      • Mix dry ingredients: flour, baking powder, and salt
      • Add butter to dry ingredients and pinch into tiny pieces
      • Add wet ingredient: milk or soy and mix with a spoon
      • When the it begins to look ‘doughy’ transfer to a cutting board
      • Knead and roll with a rolling pin
      • Flatten the dough (like a pizza) and press with a cookie cutter
      • Place cut dough on baking pan
      • The child might repeat the kneading, rolling, and cutting
      • When the child is done, place biscuits in the oven for 10 minutes or until golden

Shadows

Can you find your shadow? Let’s cast shadows inside and outside!

  • Body- hand puppets, wave, move around
  • Toys, like stuffed animals- cast shadows against paper or ground
  • Nature- large branches, flowers, birds flying by
  • Can you make your shadow small and big?
  • Where is your shadow? Front, behind or next to?
  • What makes light? Sun, moon, candles, light bulbs

Extension: chalk or crayon outline of shadow. Fill the outline with color, patterns, tape areas to make ‘stain glass’, simplify the body outline like the artist Kieth Haring- have fun, goofier the better

Sensitive Periods

Maria Montessori’s greatest contribution to science and education is her observation of sensitive periods in human beings.  She noted the intellectual and spiritual drive toward activities that are necessary to survive in the environment.  Sensitive periods are transitory impulses driving human beings to learn specific parts of their environment that last for a brief period of time.

Hugo de Vries (1848-1935), a Dutch biologist, first discovered sensitive periods while observing the metamorphosis of a butterfly.  Montessori adapted de Vries idea of sensitive periods to describe the psychic pattern of human beings.  Montessori wrote,  “Growth and development are therefore guided by: the absorbent mind, the nebulae and the sensitive periods, with their respective mechanisms.  It is these that are hereditary and characteristic of the human species.  But the promise they hold can only be fulfilled through the experience of free activity conducted on the environment.”[i]

Our law of development reveals a predetermined pattern unlike other species.  Animals are born with instincts of its own kind that reach maturity during the gestation period.  Human beings are born inert and helpless.  The human brain has an infinite amount of potential that requires us to slowly develop our mental powers.  Natures deliberate design of brain maturation, psychological order, and body movement work autonomously yet in rhythm to what is needed at that moment in time to survive.  In collaboration with the environment a brilliant human being emerges.

Montessori states, “…the newly-born child of man is so evidently and greatly inferior to that of the mammals, he must have a special function which the others do not share…He is therefore, different from animals precisely with regard to heredity.  He evidently does not inherit characteristics features, but only the potentiality to form them.  It is, therefore, after birth that the characteristics, proper to the particular kind to which the child belongs, are built up.” [ii]

Sensitive periods are broken down into four planes of development. Montessori established four planes of development to describe the physical, emotional, intellectual, and social characteristics of human beings.  It is a guide to our psychological order.

  • First Plane (7 months gestation-6 years old)
  • Second Plane (6-12 years old)
  • Third Plane (12-18 years old)
  • Fourth Plane (18-24 years old)

SENSITIVE PERIODS: First Plane of Development

Language (7 months gestation to 5 years old)

Seven months gestation, a human being exhibits interest in sounds.  Language development is long because of the importance and sequence.  The child first absorbs intonations, accent, and vocabulary of language/s in the environment.  Annotations are the inflection or strength of pitch.  The child adopts its group’s mother tongue.

Order (8 weeks to 2 years old)

Eight weeks to two years old, the sense of order surfaces in a human being.  Sometimes this can last until the age of six.  The sense of order is often missed.  This is a foundation of many things, especially, language and math.  This is an internal process and the external environment can aid this sensitive period.  This governs the Montessori classroom.  The child’s emotional connection to order is visible.  If there is a change in their sense of order, the child will be confused and possibly cry.

Control of Movements (Birth to 4 years old)

The child will perfect and control his movements.  Noise will measure the control of their movements and self-correct. There is a heightened sense of sequence through habitual movements.  The conscious absorbent mind is revealed.

Sensorial Exploration (Birth to six years old)

Manifests in three ways:

  1. Birth to three years old: general exploration through mouthing, manipulation, texture, size, sound, and color.
  2. Three years old: earlier sensations are highlighted – color, pitch to sounds, timbre (quality of sound like a tuba vs. flute).
  3. Four to six years old: sensorial impressions refined.

Sensorial materials engage the sensitive periods. The materials isolate the sensorial impressions and help children interpret their world in a coherent and differentiated manner.

Weaning (5 months +)

Five months old, a baby’s taste expands and they begin mouthing.  The baby begins a transition of nourishment.  Moving from breastfeeding or bottle to sips from a spoon then on to a cup.  The young human being is ready to experiment various foods and their textures.  If weaning is started later, the transition is difficult for the baby and mother.

Interest in Tiny Things (2 ½ years old)

A child will be drawn to insects for example.

Tactile Exploration (2 ½ years to 3 ½ years old)

The kinesthetic experience is heightened.

Manners and Courtesy (2 ½ years to 6 years)

First the skills are absorbed through everyday life then later preschoolers act out in exercises.  For example preparing a dish, serving the dish, and offering napkins to peers.

Writing (3 ½ years to 4 ½ years old)

The Montessori environment provides mental and manual materials.  For example, to satisfy the manual work, children cutout letters and for mental work they feel sandpaper letters.  Writing is fascinating because the child will write a list of words, but cannot read them back.

Mathematics (4 ½ years old)

The child counts by ones and begins to have a concrete and linear understanding.  At the toddler age children are interested in numbers because it is building their vocabulary skills.

Reading (4 ½ years – 5 ½ years old)

Emerges through writing.  Children begin to decode the meaning of the words and phonetics is a tool for the child and adult.

During the sensitive period acts of will by the child construct the activities in the classroom.


[i] Maria Montessori, Absorbent Mind, (Henry Holt and Company, 1995), p. 96.

[ii] Maria Montessori, The Formation of Man, (Clio Press, 1955), p. 56-57